Ok...... I could deal with the fact that you set "city damage" and "hidden ruins" "on". I don't like to play with those setting but I can deal with that. Now I see that you also have "raze anytime" off and that's too much. I don't play a game without raze as I find it too limiting. We can restart or go our separate way
We can finish this game for fun with no report or stop. Its up to you. I won't play without "raze" on so we'll have to find other opponents.

Is this normal???